Let's Explore the Real Meaning & True Essence of 'Surrendering'…
& Finding & Freeing Your 'Authentic YOU' Self… vs. the 'Ego' Self…
 

Surrender‘Surrendering’ is a complicated & tricky area most people don’t really understand too well… In fact, many people not only misunderstand it, but then also miss out on the very valuable learning lessons all wrapped up in coming to grips with this very valuable transformation process…

It’s therefore SO important to truly understand Surrendering & Letting Go – what it is, & what it’s not, & how to wend your way through the complexities of this process.

I've wanted to write about this for quite some time, & now come to this place of actually doing so, from my own heart-felt learning experiences…

'Surrendering', as a concept, has sort of gotten a bad rap & ambushed mis-interpretation from our culture & media-perpetrated & skewed meaning – that it’s 'giving up', 'failing', 'giving yourself in or over to the authorities', like in crime movies/TV shows, or handing yourself into the sheriff or posse in those old B grade western flicks.

So, if your Inner Growth, further Awakening, Transformation Evolution of Your Life Journey are important to you, & 'BE'-ing your true 'Authentic YOU' Self is a value you hold highly & aim to achieve, then understanding the nuances of Surrendering & Letting Go are vital… >>>
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Here’s What it’s NOT Surrender doesn't mean giving up, or of failure. It’s not a state of helplessness… & it's not at all a case of abandoning, or excusing oneself, or opting out from one’s interaction & interface with one's immediate environment, or wider world…

Surrendering & Letting Go does not mean you're giving up on your desire & aim to achieve & 'manifest' your ideal life. Not by a long shot at all…

Here’s What 'Surrendering' & 'Letting Go' IS 

SurrenderSurrendering means accepting what is… working with it, & 'allowing' it… & being open to more, that's yet to come… To 'allowing' what is meant to be to happen…. Working with the flow... Not in a passive way, but in an 'allowing' way, actively & astutely interpreting & reflecting on the meaning, & learning further from the process …

It is, therefore, an extremely powerful & transformative process, because as you explore, you discover the practice actually involves & means you must find out & uncover more of WHO you really are, the real & true YOU!… When all the layers & veneers are peeled away…

Not the "ME" ~ Me ~ me ~ you'd like to think, believe, fool yourself, or aspiringly pretend to be who you might be, in the limited, judgment-based 3D world context… 

SurrenderSo, this Transformational process even becomes a Sacred Divine practice that unfurls into being a state of getting to Know Yourself – Your True 'AUTHENTIC YOU' Self A state of enabling yourself to pin-point, hone-in & assume the natural, inherent, unique to YOU essence & powers you were originally endowed, gifted & came here with…  

We Surrender into our capabilities – the power that flows through us… from Our Soul… Our True Soul Power… Our Soul Connection… 

It’s not an external 'pretend' mask, layer, cloak, or artificial, manufactured mantle or label we may 'assume', or fall into the 'put-on' trap, like putting on today's new outfit, while in the awareness-lacking state…

Because those 'external' things, & other similar 'props' we may use, like affirmations, mantras, vision boards, & other such practices & repetitions, are outside of, & separate to, the essential intrinsic 'AUTHENTIC YOU'. Sure, they’re useful & helpful as tools we can reach for & use, but that’s all they are – props, constructs, scaffolding, external to US, & to who we are at our True 'Authentic YOU' Core​ Identity…

Remember that those external 'things', or conjurings & 'spells', eventually wear off, wane, & lose their lasting power… Or you may forget to use them for periods of time, or stop using them altogether… 

The only Truth that has lasting power is the Truth of Your AUTHENTIC 'YOU' Identity.

Spirit is SimpleThat’s as simple & straightforward as it gets when you pare it all down, peel the onion, or cut away all the layers to get to the Truth – it all lays within Your AUTHENTIC 'YOU' Self Identity…

And, please don’t misunderstand my use of the word 'simple', as what I’m intending is that we’ve really over-complicated this very basic core Truth  & that's the crux of where we need to get back on track to – to recapture, reconnect & come back home to our core Soul & Spirit basic origins.

This is precisely the reason why it’s SO important to do the 'Inner Work' & get to Know Yourself – to tap into, find & free the deepest Identity of Who YOU are – & call forth, set free, & allow Your AUTHENTIC 'YOU' Identity to emerge & express itself in all Honesty & Transparency

It's then, & only then, with Your True Authentic 'YOU', that you are enabled to 'gently' call forth the things you wish to see, happen & manifest in Your Life – more 'organically', with much greater ease & flow...

'Gently' is emphasized, because at that point, you're able to 'gently' call & invite it in. And, gently doesn’t mean passive – it’s gently because it’s 'in the flow'… & it starts to happen delightfully & deliciously, as if it's just meant to be, & you're on your right Divine Path

You've removed the pretense, & cleared away your issues & the blocks… You've surrendered & let go… You've opened yourself up to become more aware of, & follow your guidance… You've 'awakened' to the clearer 'knowing' that you are being supported, in tandem & co-creation, & the path frees up, liberates & Abundantly opens before you to move forward…    

It's Not About 'Forcing' It

'Forcing it' is the rough, uncouth, boorish 3D world way. Not only does it it miss the entire point, but it's the expiring, old & passe way – Shall I say, SO 'yesterday's news' 😉 in the context of the genuinely 'Awakened', 'Transformational' & Sacred Divine Way… 

If you use force, it's one of those 'external' to you things, like the ones we've just referred to above. It therefore most likely won’t last, or dissipate, lose it's effectiveness, or go away, just like an illusion.

Mind you, sometimes the old external 'forcing it' ways do come in handy, so don't throw away or dispense with them completely just yet. You just have to be more discerning about the occasions upon which you might have to appropriately switch-back to using them in certain situations & contexts.

forceSometimes, they have to be pulled out again, dusted-off, & resorted to when having to deal with typical, trad 3D world-created situations – as & while we still have to operate in those scenarios to get by each day… At times, 'banging-the-door-down' is required to get the desired result, or even work through an external to you 3D world-generated chaotic shemozzle, not of your (conscious) creation. It's like choosing the most appropriate language, software program, or app, to best navigate the situation to desired outcome.  

At those times, you may still need to use them as part of your overall arsenal of 'tools & techniques' you resort to in order to maneuver through this world we live in… In balancing the dualistic nature of transitioning from 3D world constrictions into the freer 5D & Beyond Realms…   

The insightawareness & clarity is in the bigger inner 'knowing' of the difference & the appropriateness in that moment… in Your Mastery of YOU & your world…

'Surrendering' & the 'Ego' SelfSurrender & Ego

Your Ego is your false SELF. It's based in fear, pretense, expectation & entitlement. Ego lives in scarcity & fear of loss, so it grabs on & won't let go. It has a limited comfort zone, so it hates & resists change. Whenever you feel defensive, that’s the ego taking over.

Your true self is who You really are, your eternal Soul, the Authentic 'YOU' that is connected to everything, & is at one with Ego - SelfGod & the Sacred Divine in all ways… Free of the shackles of ego.

And this is where ‘Surrendering’ is the key… you don’t transform or transition to the real YOU by trying hard or 'Efforting' to let go of ego. It’s the pure & simple act of Surrendering, Letting Go & recognizing ego’s false patterns that liberates & frees you from its gripping hold.

Paying close attention, & doing the 'Inner Work', will heighten your awareness, & you'll feel yourself transition from ego & false illusion, through to the reality of your true Authentic 'YOU' Self… Like the Aha moment!… It will literally feel like going from night into day, from darkness into the light, from heaviness into lightness & ease, & the feeling of 'coming home', with a peaceful sense of familiarity & innate knowing…

Yes, you'll probably go back & forth, revert a little sometimes, & when & if you do notice yourself doing so, remember to pull yourself up, be self-aware, center & ground yourself, re-calibrate to your set-point, regain your balance, & raise your frequency back up once again…

Once you have the clarity & awareness, & you can remove the entrapment chains, you can then consciously choose to live anchored & centered within your true ‘Authentic YOU’ Self & remain connected to the Sacred Divine Way.

Ego-time-limitedImportant Distinction Between Soul 'Power' & the Ego's Concept of Enforceable Power

There’s a vitally important distinction to make here between Soul 'Power' & the Ego's concept of enforceable power…

In Surrendering into the ‘power’ that is your 'Authentic YOU' Self, it is the inherent Soul ‘Power’ that flows naturally through you at your core essence – it's Your Soulprint, or Soul Blueprint.

There’s a huge difference in the way the ego sees power, in that it believes that we somehow have 'power' we can utilize, mobilize, enforce & control when we like.

It’s not about using force or enforcing that power – as referred to above – as force is the rough, crude way that’s becoming part of the old way of doing things… It’s not the Sacred Divine way, all with Divine Timing

Ego DissolveThe Sacred Divine Way is about accepting & Surrendering to Who YOU are, & gently inviting & calling in things to you… It’s about co-operation & co-creation with the Universe…

The ego also will play with your mind when things aren't going as you want them to go – No, it's not the Universe 'punishing' you, it's not as though the Universe is rubbing your training puppy nose in the doggy-doo excrement…

It's more likely that you just haven't understood the lesson, or missed the true nature of the guidance that was being given. There's just some more 'inner work' to be done & the lessons truly learned & tweaks & adjustments made in your life. 

Just as with the use of force when necessary, as we covered above, the ego doesn’t have to be a complete liability – if understood with clarity & awareness, & mastered with respect & dignity, it also can be an asset.Surrender Just be mindful, heartful, & discerning… 

You can also choose to do the 'inner work' & restore & reactivate Your Authentic YOU DNA Coding to its pure, original Divine Purpose, before you got off-track & derailed in this 3D world, if that is your honorable intention…

When you come to get to know & become familiar with the processes of Surrendering & Letting Go, just like a well-known & trusted great Friend, you will have greater insight, awareness & mastery of many areas of Your Life.

To Your Life Success!
With Many Blessings & Gratitude!

Authentic 'YOU' AlchemyKathy
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